What ever happened to family?

Can you remember a time in your upcoming to where you are at now? What about how you made it to where you are and what you stand for
It all came about your parents in what they believed in and how they raised you to be the person that you are today.

Today families have drawn so many members far apart from one another and hopes of no return. The problem is that family are now competing against one another instead of working together to make things happen for the better and not for the worse.
You see and read about how many family members that fight amongst themselves ends up with broken homes or perhaps death.

Family today is the root of evil instead of money even though money could be the leading causes. We look at family and wonder what the real problem is.
Okay I just figured this one out this was easy;
When you are a single parent meeting a single parent with children is a major issue. You have to learn about the other individual as to what their likes and dislikes are including the children’s likes and dislikes. This doesn’t happen overnight but may take some years to get acquainted. Second families that are with both parents tend to do good but often times the older the relationship and the children get older they tend to get bothered by one another and then the family begins to spilt up and then all the division of things happen. Now this can take a week or even a month.

By doing this the children now are more confused as to why my mom and dad don’t like each other anymore and wonder what are they going to do when mom and dad leave one another ending in a divorce.
Some parents that divorce have greater relationships as if they are still together and then there are some that despise one another and is glad they are single and go on with their life regardless of what happens and still be apart of that child’s life. Then lastly there are some that are absent in the child’s life and careless as long they are apart and do not want no responsibility in doing what is necessary.

But getting on to what I am really stating this is only my opinion could be fact but you will never know unless you have experienced the same thing.

Being in a relationship at an early age I decided to settle down and raise a family with the hopes and dreams of a husband, home and children. This is majority of women dream. So in the beginning it happened but as the years drew fonder the relationship of 8 years was falling apart year after year day by day. We begin to hate one another stopped going to the places we once went. Our children were frustrated as to what is going on with us. Never once having the words to say I stayed in the relationship as long as I could. When the times got harder and harder to be in a relationship and my kids lives was in danger I began to find an escape for me and my children. It took some time for me to get away but the lifestyle that I was indulged in was keeping me in the same situation. It seemed as though the more I thought about leaving the more I found ways to make our relationship work.
Knowing this was not something that I have dreamed of but finally I was able to leave. The only reason I was able to leave was that my husband had left me and the children one morning and I knew then that it was over for us.

Being separated was hard but well worth the rehabilitation it took to mend a broken home and the hearts of the children. Until this day my children have been scared for life they will never forget the times of us fighting in their eyesight, moving from house to house, involved in another relationship with a so called father figure in their life and then that all failed too!
So my next move was to move back home to my mother and dad whom I thank god for them to be still alive and well enough to take me and my children. This was the drawing point in my life and I needed to make a change for the better. When I say change for the better I speaking on the things in my life that I needed to get rid of the drugs and the alcohol the violence and the abuse. My children at one time were taken from me at that moment I felt as though I had lost everything and didn’t know which way to go.

Until suddenly God sent forth a wonderful man to me that I was not ready for just coming out of a relationship but still doing drugs and alcohol. We begin to spend time together and things led one to another we then began to spend more and more time together you know getting acquainted. Yes I did begin to love him because it took so much from me but yet stuck with me through the thick and the thin. Now this is family. He talked and talked to me about loving myself and that things are not what they seem to be but what I make it to be. Remember my kids have been taking away from me and if it had not been for God sending this man to me I believe my kids would still be gone today. Right now my daughter is 17, son 15 and 14 years old. Life is still sort of hard but the good thing is that I do not have to fight anymore or do drugs anymore. I am happy and living the dream I have always hoped for with the same man that God sent me.
Throughout the abuse that I have conquered over the years I have lost just about everything except my life and I believe that that was going to be the next thing. But God survived me to do better. I this was one opportunity that no one should ever pass up. If God steps in you will know about because you will begin to ask yourself how did I make it through.
Our lives are a living testimony we can share to others what happened to us and how we made it to be who we are today. Some life stories you hear about are really degrading to women and children, let’s not leave out the men because men are suppose to be our backbone in everything we do. Some prefer to be single but there are others who want to share the moment of togetherness.
This is family the bonding as a whole and not just toward one individual. I believe that through conversation would make the bond even more closely.
Rule of thumb for a better relationship
1. voice your opinion as to what you would like to see in the future as well as the present
2. Keep and open relationship where when ever the time is you still can talk to one another without anyone becoming offended
3. Set priorities
4. Limit time to share with the entire family rather it be one on one with the children
5. Allow children to be children where they can voice their opinion as well remember they are human beings and have feelings as well
6. Lastly be aware of suggestions and take them into consideration and work with it
To all the people that have read this I hope you are sincere in making your families well being work for the better. Even though things may become rough but situations don’t last always. When you are confused as to how to refrain yourself from the obstacles that holds you down look up to God and ask him to help. When family is not around to assist but be against what you set out to do just remember there is someone that is waiting to hear from you and will come to your rescue to make all things alright.

Thanks much for reading my blog on what ever happened to family this was very deep on my heart and I felt as though to relieve the pressure was to write about it. It helped tremendously and the thought of reaching others around the world would benefit from it or have an idea that they are not alone. For we all have fallen short of something and know that the main thing is to learn and get out.

Meshemarie
SheilaThomas86@yahoo.com
P.S. Email me for any questions or concerns that are not mentioned in this blog. I am free to answer or listen to what you may have to say or add to what was written. Take care of yourselves and your families great things are definitely ahead if you allow them to come into your path.

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When you know you’ve done wrong!

When you know you have done wrong and it seems as though all hope is gone; how do you fix it?
Do we overlook the process of wanting to change for the better or do we continue where we left off, making the problem more of a problem. In the marketing world there is always going to be problems even in your business. Why because there are many those despise what you do or what you are attempting to do in building a business. And the same applies to the real workplace outside the internet. In outside business or franchise it only takes one individual to mess up or turn the productivity to a halt. How can that be possible to do? Simply by not addressing that there is definitely a problem and it needs to be fixed. Same goes for your online business if you are doing well in your business and you have members in your down line and one of those members can make one simple mistake then there goes your business, your trust, the confidence your prospects had in you, now your business is at a halt.



The question here is when you know you’ve done wrong address it right away and solve issues now before its ever too late. To eliminate problems and stay on track everyone that you surround your business with should be on the same page as you and follow the instructions that have been laid out for them. And ask question then what ifs and how about and so forth.

A business is a group of individuals that work together to accomplish a specific goal and make money. In a structured business you have a variety of people that are delegated to do a specific task in the business structure. Everyone has a special skill to take on a duty that they are comfortable in doing so knowing what to do and what is expected of you your job shall and will go smoothly. With this in mind everyone is special in their own unique way.

When you know you have done wrong it is not a matter of pride but to acknowledge the fact that you made a mistake and bring it to the table so it can be evaluated and fixed if it is yet fixable. In most cases it is fixable especially when it involves technology. Working with computers is fun but yet very tedious as to what is going in and what is coming out. Remember not all things are meant to be out across the net unless you are expanding your business and wants to get the word out quickly and effectively to millions across the net.. In most scenarios the internet is an attention getter everyone is online. So be careful as to what you say when your sending emails and more.

Same goes for the business outside marketing when you are working a 9 to 5 Monday thru Friday. The same applies you still have to be on guard as to who you talk to about your job and giving information too. You don’t know that whom you are filling in may know the individual you are speaking of. How do you know? This goes for your co-workers as well watch what you say and who you are saying it to...

When you know you’ve done wrong it is okay to evaluate yourself and see just exactly what you may have done to go wrong in the first place. many times when thing go wrong we like to play the blame game and honestly believe that there is no way it could have been self that went wrong.

The way to acknowledge the fact as to what happened after analyzing the situation is to try not to do the same thing over again. Humans have the ability to correct and learn from their mistakes and succeed then there are some that take the bitter with the sweet and careless what could happen even if it causes them to lose their jobs.

Same goes for you internet business you need to be aware of what could happen as if it was a real life situation. Your members or prospects should be just only that yeah I know you can build a close relationship with some. That what online business is all about building a relationship first then gradually explain what you do online.. Offering advise is good to a certain extent depending on how close the communication is between you and your prospects, this is very important.

Your prospects should never know about what is going with the others in your down line as to who is active or lazy. That is none of their business even if they tell you about their down line it is none of your business either. Personal business should always be kept personal unless you find that it to be a problem to you or see that it has impacted your business then it is your responsibility to go directly to that specific individual and question the fact what is going on is there any thing I can do to help you. Or is there something you do not understand. Sometimes just a simple hello will be enough to get them up and active again.

In the real world when you come in to work what is wrong with saying hello good morning maybe that is something you have not been doing that could be wrong to others.. its the communication gap amongst the members of the business. In most cases your co-workers could be having a bad day or you know or heard something that has happened you don't broadcast it out to your other co-workers it is none of their business...if it bothers you to much then take upon yourself and go to that person and ask them are they alright is there something i can do for you. Knowing what to say when you know you have done wrong is the part that most of us don’t have a clue as to how or what when it is pointing to self. Humans don’t like for the finger to be pointing at them because now it is a matter of changing a negative situation into a positive and build from it.

I had to learn the hard way I can speak on this because it was by all means directed at me. I work for an insurance company and there were many tasks that was before me that I had very much experience in felt confident enough to full fill my duties as an insurance specialist.

Just before I knew I had it all together it only took one mistake to cause the business to fail. But with technology we was able to conquer the mistake and learn from them

I felt so bad I did not know whether to quit or continue working but with a little encouragement from my boss I turned to her and said thank you i am truly sorry.. When we analyzed the situation and fixed the problem I knew just in a matter of minutes that my job duties were very important and that every aspect of my position is in fact the business. Everyday I make sure that what happened doesn’t happen again because it takes more out of you to fix a problem and stay on top of things when in the beginning if I was doing my job fully none of this would have happened.Believe in your self and admit that when you have done wrong talk to somebody and get help. Same as to your online business if you know for a fact that something is not right or going the way you would like to search around there are many good people on the net that is ever so willing to assist you in your business. These individuals are blessed because even though they have a business of their own they are not always about selling but helping others.

Would you know when you have done wrong?

Meshemarie

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Email Sheilathomas86@yahoo.com

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